You love the other with all your energy.
You love the other so you can feel complete.
You love the other so you feel worthy and alive.
You love the other by imagining in your head what could be instead of what is.
You love the other so you can be relieved from your internal suffering.
You love the other because you are conditioned to believe you are not good enough.
You love the other because your beliefs system is wired within a place of lack.
How do you love yourself first so you can attract unconditional and healthy relationships ?
Redirect your love towards its source as the love is already inside of you.
Would you like to go out on a date? Take yourself out first.
Would you like to spend a romantic evening with a partner? Spend it with yourself first.
Would you like to make someone else happy? Make yourself happy first.
Are you upset because they broke your heart? Acknowledge that you are responsible for your feelings, not someone else.
Do you stay with them out of fear of being alone? Choose better for yourself because you love yourself more than you love them.
Do you believe you will never find the love of your life? Realise that you are the love of your life first.
Believe you are loveable by loving yourself first.
As if you don’t, how do you expect anyone to love you the way you deserve?
Love yourself, but how ?
