Ghosting occurs when someone abruptly stops any form of contact for no reason.
This happens in love, in work and with friends.
It hurts as it scars your heart with a sharp razor blade leaving you bleeding with no closure.
How do you stop the bleeding as prevention is not in your control ?
First, acknowledge that people are fickle human beings. One day you are the object of their attention until you are not.
Second, be frank with yourself – where do you get your validation and reason to live from ?
If it is outside of you, life will be painful with more bleeding hearts over and over again.
Third, closure is overrated. When someone disappears from your experience it has more to do with them than with you.
The only one who can make this about your self-worth is you.
Fourth, know that we are all connected through energy fields and people pick up on the subtleties you project.
If you feel insecure and a need to control, the energy of neediness pushes people away.
If you feel safe and secure within yourself, than the energy of ease and lightness prevails.
Finally, the most important relationship you will have is with yourself.
When you invest in turning inwards for answers, for relief, for love, for care, for soothing, for whatever it is that you need – your energy will attract the matching frequency to join you in your experience.
Ghosting hurts.
But it can only hurt as much as you allow it to.
Ghosting
